"WhyMyHeartHurts"
-
The
Truth
About
Being
a
Ninth
Level
Scumbag We
hear
a
lot
about
"nice
guys
finish
last"
and
the
"friend
zone"
-
but
what
about
the
guys
who
go
beyond
that?
What
about
the
guys
who
actively
seek
to
manipulate
and
hurt
those
around
them?
They
are
the
ones
who
earn
the
title
of
"ninth
level
scumbag"
-
and
unfortunately,
they
are
all
too
common. There
are
many
reasons
why
someone
might
become
a
ninth
level
scumbag.
Sometimes,
it's
a
result
of
their
upbringing
-
they
may
have
grown
up
in
an
environment
where
manipulation
and
emotional
abuse
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normalized.
Other
times,
it's
simply
a
result
of
their
own
insecurities
and
desire
for
power
and
control. Regardless
of
the
reason,
being
a
ninth
level
scumbag
is
never
okay.
It's
not
just
about
being
a
bad
boyfriend
or
a
player
-
it's
about
intentionally
causing
harm
to
those
around
you.
Some
of
the
tactics
used
by
these
scumbags
include
gaslighting,
playing
mind
games,
and
even
physical
abuse. If
you
suspect
that
you
are
dating
a
ninth
level
scumbag,
it's
important
to
get
out
of
the
relationship
as
soon
as
possible.
These
individuals
are
unlikely
to
change,
and
staying
with
them
will
only
lead
to
more
pain
and
misery. Likewise,
if
you
recognize
these
behaviors
in
yourself,
it's
crucial
to
take
steps
to
change
your
behavior.
This
may
mean
seeking
therapy,
working
on
your
self-esteem,
and
learning
healthier
ways
to
communicate
and
relate
to
others. While
being
a
ninth
level
scumbag
may
seem
like
an
easy
way
to
get
what
you
want
in
the
short
term,
it
will
ultimately
lead
to
a
lifetime
of
loneliness
and
regret.
So
if
you
want
to
have
any
chance
at
a
happy,
healthy
relationship,
it's
important
to
leave
this
toxic
behavior
behind.
Your
heart
-
and
the
hearts
of
those
around
you
-
will
thank
you
for
it.